I want EMAIL CONFIDENCE. You may be wondering what EMAIL
CONFIDENCE is. Well let me explain. In email, I can be very confident and
assertive without being aggressive if that makes sense. But if I am speaking to
you in person, I have to search for words and I tend to be quite shy about
getting my point across to someone. This
is the case in some situations for me. In emails, I can be so confident and get my
point across so well but it would be like a totally different person if I were
to ask or present the topic in person. Sad but true. As I am writing this, I am
wondering if it is just about confidence or just being prepared. I can say that
when I go into a situation thinking that I am prepared but it becomes quite
clear that I am not when I begin to speak. It is quite frustrating because you
always want to appear to be put together and on top of things. My husband
suggests that I practice speaking but can that truly help when you have to talk
about or present something out of the blue? Maybe it can if you want it to. I
wonder why I have such a hard time doing this because I have all figured out in
my head but when comes time to say it I can sound like an idiot. Maybe that is
a bit harsh but that is how I feel at times. I can know about something and be
confident in my knowing but when it comes to sharing I feel like people will
look at me and wonder “what makes her such an expert?” or “why should I take
what she says seriously?”. I know that it doesn’t help to feel this way but it
is how I feel. I want that EMAIL CONFIDENCE!
EMAIL CONFIDENCE
